Though I generally try hard to not make assumptions I'm going to assume that since you're here you are looking for some sort of commonality with another human being. So first I'm going to tell you what this site isn't. That way you can decide if you want to hang out here or not.

This isn't a place of Star Trek information or fandom. Though I do like the old Star Trek series, I'm not a "fan". You won't find any warez, games or other such geekiness.

I am 42 years old. Some of that life I chose, a lot was chosen for me. It constantly amazes me what a person can live through and still come out the other end relatively intact. I'm one of those "relatively intact" people you unknowingly run into day after day.

I really like lots of things, but you can read about that one the "likes" page.

I am Canadian. I am pagan. I am a lesbian who's married to a guy. I'm a mom, and for a long time a mother but not a mom. I work as in Administration at a non-profit company.

I am also a person who enjoys putting together web sites as my energy allows. I am self taught and still learning.

You may note that I have chosen a blue based background. Blue is my favourite colour. I find it rather ironic that a colour most people consider "cool" or "cold" is also the hottest part of a flame. Duality in life, that's a theme I constantly run across, Birth/Death, Destruction/Construction, Planting/Harvest, Cold/Hot, Yin/Yang, and on..

Still interested? Then you can read more about me, my likes, my dislikes, my opinions, my creative efforts, read some helpful stuff, and run your eyes over the variety of links I've collected.